Marriage's belong to Allah. As much as you're doing some good things, it'll never be barakah if you didn't serve your husband as a king. His responsibility to us (woman) is much bigger, if wife does show her hair, his fault, if wife doesn't make shalat and fasting, his fault, if wife does leave home without to tell to her husband, Allah and Malaikat aversion her. Subhanallah, see how much husband isn't just partner in world, even in akhirah he'll responsible of our mistakes that we did. Treat your husband as you respect your father, because he'll treat you as his dream wife as he look for, and Jannah is Allah's promise.